Top Recommended 2021
Choosing Your Divorce Battles and Mindfully Letting Go!
Heads up on the liberal use of a powerful word...So yesterday I had a perfect parcel of "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson arrive in my post box. And as I do, and sometimes do not give a f*ck, I dived head on in to see how good this attitude...
How Divorce Can Spectacularly Screw Your Kids Up With BBCs Dr Foster
So with a week to go, I have been running through my book pitch with various friends. One was prompted to ask me if I had seen the latest episode of a BBC TV series running at the mo called Dr Foster. I replied I hadn't, for reasons such as time and other...
How We Feel When Our Kids Holiday With Our Ex…
So today I am feeling a little funny... it is indeed that time of the year when the longer holidays happen. It is the time when those house monkeys, little people, or whatever you choose to call your children/teenagers, pack their suitcases and go on holiday...
Finding Love or Love Finding You?
So I am on a bit of a run with this 'love thing' at the moment... Feeling the Summer-like energy of others as they are finding love and the excitement of new kisses exploding like flowering buds and butterflies in the garden of joy and bliss... So the musings...
Ex’s and Mothers Day After Divorce
Ok so Exs and Mothers Day... how does this feel? Divorcing kindly takes effort, big effort and respect, attention and time... being in a good place, if possible with your Ex leads to a far more harmonious life for your kids, for you and your wider circle of...
Mindful Internet Dating After Divorce
So there is a little part of me tempted to explore the avenue of internet dating to 'find' love. Having spent a weekend with a happy divorced school friend who successfully found love via the internet, I thought it about time I took a peek. Not the swipe left or...
Divorce & Happier Handovers for Kids and Co-Parents
Handovers for parents and kids during and after divorce can be difficult, challenging and painful. Kids of divorced parents essentially have two homes and it is the kids, NOT us, who are on the move, packing, repacking and sleeping in different beds. Generally,...
Love and Being Single on Valentine’s Day – #notjustforvalentines
So once again we all find ourselves in the hearty wash cycle of February. Marinating whether we like it or not immersed in love marketing, preparing mentally, emotionally and physically for the DAY of LOVE that is Valentines Day ta dahhhhh, so nearly upon...
Love is Reaching Out So We Can All Talk More
There are moments in our lives where we all really need to talk. We bottle up our thoughts and emotions, feelings and experiences until we either suddenly explode in anger or we harbour our 'stuff' and become a prisoner of the darker days of depression....
Wishing you a wonderful, kind and positive year that is 2017
Wishing you all a truly wonderful, positive New Year that is 2017... may you give present moment awareness to those sometimes scary areas of life that need tending with kindness and love.May you feel brave enough to speak your words of truth as you honour those in...
Shortest Day of the Year, Elvis’ Lonely This Christmas and Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
Today is the shortest day of the year and as we move towards Christmas for so many who are separated, divorcing or on their own through loss, even on this shortest of days, it can feel so very, very long. Image: elvisblog.netI felt this very recently, having...
No Fault Divorce – Please Let There be a Better Way
So today in the UK over 150 family justice professionals are coming to Parliament to meet their local MPs. What is this for? A very good and honourable cause ... they are coming to talk to their MPs about why the Government needs to allow for a NO FAULT DIVORCE....